November 2025

I realize why bible doesn't say "Love your parents"
-because love is a feeling but honor is a choice. 
Even when they don't understand you, 
even when they are difficult and even when they weren't perfect.
-God ask for honor even when love feels hard.


Le hubby manage to come back celebrate Aelfred's 3 years old BDay.
Isabelle 3 month old and Aelfred 3 years old!

It's almost 2 years being in a long distance relationship with le hubby. Looking back how depressed I was when we started to discuss about why he have to move to another city/far away from me.  Well, I should have calm down.


LIFE KEEPS MOVING FORWARD,
no matter what happens-it is the changes that make you stronger.

YES le hubby is away from 2024 till at least 2027. 

"Most woman are not looking for men to take care of them anymore. They are just looking for a man they don't have to take care of"

Well, at least hubby provide financially for me RN. 

Life wasn't so bad while doing everything alone ok.
At least, I have never break down for this reason yet.

How's motherhood alone?

I still manage to bring Aelfred to the indoor playgrouns once a month.

I still manage to bring Aelfred to the park twice a week.


I still manage to fetch Aelfred to-fro Kindergarten with meimei, sometimes.


I still manage to bring this little family for a getaway 3D 2N.


I still manage to have a quick picnic birthday celebration.


I still manage to go picnic by the beach with my children.


I still manage to meet up with Uncle Tze Yit.


I still manage to celebrate Bday with my family. 


THIS IS WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE DOING NOTHING AND EVERYTHING AT THE SAME TIME.

At least, Aelfred still look up to his daddy.
He used to say "Daddy is strong, like hulk, can protect me"



sometimes, I think I need a far away getaway for a day.
Far away from everything. But not too far away from my children.




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