welcome 2024 .

 A friend to all, is a friend to none

Chase two girls, lose the one.

I'd be a fearless leader

I'd be an alpha type

When everyone believes ya

What's that like?

I'm so sick of running as fast as I can

Wondering if I'd get there quicker

If I was a man.

December used to be my favorite month.
but now I got no favorite month. imma aging maybe NYEH

WELCOME 2024 !

Finally, get some time to blog again. 
I noticed some of my old blog post views increase, which got me to read back my previous few blog posts. 
Why are you guys still reading my old post..
Well, do I feel cringe or has the mentality changed? or am I happier now?

I think the same la. Same emo emo, at times.

I have stopped thinking about how to be happier. All I want now is peace.

Nic have been questioning how to have a sleep like mine; 
lie on the bed and fell asleep in seconds!

and he came to the conclusion that
people with lesser brain activity sleep easily.

 Nic is saying that he has so much brain activity which makes him have difficulty falling asleep.

So, once in awhile Nic would look at me in amazed and ask "There is really nothing in your brain right now?"

He is so annoying right.

Ever since my birthday 7nov, Nic has been a brand new person to the point I was so uncomfortable and tried many times to trigger him so that he could stop hiding his satan HAHAHA

How brand new he was the past few month??

 He will apologize before we argue, he will be understanding when I say I am tired after work, and he will even wake up to get milk for Aelfred at night.

2023, Nic bought a house for me. I made him pay the RM 130k down payment and yet the house's gonna be under my name only. And he didn't even throw tantrum??!

OH YES WE BOUGHT A HOUSE!

What a milestone *cries happily*

It's a double-storey 800k fully furnished house with a bathtub!

A few weeks ago, we were told that we might receive the new house key one month later than the agreed-upon date but they would compensate us RM1500 (we would have got 8% =RM6+K compensation by law if we were to sue) But kind Nic say it's okay that we will just get the RM1500 and skip the chaos.

As far as I know my husband, the legendary keyboard warrior; not so kind... 
being so kind now is a miracle okay!

Pastor used to advise me no need to pray that Nic would be a better husband. Because it will drain oneself. Pastor was like "Pray that God will give you a bigger heart to accept Nic's flaws and that God will help you be a better wife"

Now then Miracle happened that Nic is a better man!
will see how long his patience last

2023 has been good.

Aelfred survived under my care. Being a first-time mother can be very kiancheong ok.

Also, I get to return to my hometown to work as PIC of the clinic. The good thing being the YM is the exception to do oncall. Initially, I wanted to let go of this position to someone more experienced as 5 other colleagues have been working >7 years than me. But I decided to take this role and challenge myself to do more.. More admin work lol

Since I got transferred here. I have done 800 patients in 5 months. The rule is one dental visit only limited to one treatment but Imma a kind dentist, so usually will attend to most of the needs of my patients. Do you need dental scaling and filings? I will do both. My DSA was a bit emo for this but eventually, they let me do it because I finished attending to my patients earlier than other colleagues yo. NYEH

2024, there are many things I wanna achieve. Maybe making a younger sibling for Aelfred kan :P

Oh, I will be doing an attachment with the specialist starting today Monday 1/1/2024. But I postponed it since it's the new year 2024 HAHAH. I will officially start the attachment next week. Relax and chill jap. 

A part of me hopes it will faster end but being a specialist is my career path now. Feel so uncomfortable leaving my comfort zone. But since I was placed to work at a specialist clinic now, might as well do attachment kan. May God give me more wisdom and perseverance and favor and everything AMEN heheh

Just hope the colleagues at the specialist clinic are not toxic AMEN 

But honestly, the malay in Jb are differ to the ones at Terengganu. Missing Terengganu humble,kind and helpful people there. Over here, most of the time you are just on your own. phew

The JB Specialist clinic is 12km from my house. My current clinic is 7km from my house.

Hopefully I won't be late. Another reason to be not excited for the attachment HEHEH

OK JOKE ASIDE. 

NEW YEAR, NEW ME!

Promise to do my attachment with a heart of learning and patience and love. :)

First day of 2024, My alarm clock/baby Aelfred didn't wake me up 
BUT I MANAGED TO WAKE UP AT 7AM WHOOTS!

Reach workplace at 7:45am (the earliest in the history)
Bought breakfast and had morning prayer!
Good way to start 2024 yo

Today didn't arrange myself any job. Perhaps do some reading to prep myself for the attachment at specialist clinic k.

done update my blog! teehee

May 2024 be kind to all of us. 
May 2024, we all have more time fellowship with God.
Remember to be kind to your neighbor ok peeps!

一起加油吧！ yi qi jia you ba

kthnxbye